Why is it when a woman finally comes to terms with the way men act, the very same men go and “change?”
Well, here is the answer: These men didn’t change, they are lying. Most men have their personality “set in stone” by age 24. The only “changing” a woman can do to a man’s personality is teach him to load a dishwasher.
The guy I have found attractive for the past year claims he’s “changed.” I, however, a year ago “shelved” him in my “friend zone” due to his overly sexed, female objectifying, player personality.” Just when I am ready to try and have “fun,” be free and not date for a LONG time this guy tells me he doesn’t party and he “quit.” Now, I don’t translate that into he is ready to be a steady boyfriend, but I do find his sudden “change” suspicious.
Two years ago I would’ve been happy to hear that a man I found attractive had changed. Two years ago I would’ve been ecstatic to go see a movie, grab coffee, etc.
BUT, NOW?
Now, I look at his beautiful eyes, luscious lips and think, “Well, I find you attractive, but I am NOT attracted to anything other than your lips, eyes, hair, voice and hands...So, hold my hand and my eyes say, ‘thank you for the beautiful view.’”
Maybe I’ll finally experience everything I missed out on in college...Maybe, I might like a guy and have my interests reciprocated. Maybe, I’ll hold a hand? Maybe, walk with an arm around me?
Maybe, a kiss? Maybe, a conversation? Maybe, he won’t blow me off to go to the library?
Heck, maybe I’ll stand him up! So, he better show up, just to see if I am there...
