I recall my dad telling me before I went to college that men will say anything and do almost anything to sleep with you!
Fortunately, I was in a college department that had very few straight men and none of them were interested in me!
I was never exposed to men trying to charm their way into my pants with booze and smooth talking....I was one of the lucky ones!
As college progressed I realized, I had yet to go on a "date," aside from a “pity” date that a “Baby-Daddy-friend” took me on...."Mr. Babby-Daddy" later implied via text that he, "Knew a place we could go, Ma" and his mind was in the gutter.... So right there was the obvious pass at my pants, and he missed by a long shot.
I realized that I needed to branch out and socialize! I was twenty one and being social should come natural!
Well, at one party I had a little too much to drink and "crashed" on my friend's couch. During the evening I was shamelessly hit on by the sleaziest guy at the party (even though I said, “no” numerous times). Here we go again, the SECOND pass at my pants....which I managed to evade.
The next morning while getting breakfast:
A female friend of my "man-friend" describes a dream she has about US being lesbians and making-out....and the cops broke us up....I didn’t think much of the implications beyond the current political debate on Prop-8...So I explained my stance for the right to marry and love is love; it shouldn’t matter, marriage is about love.
Well love is love, but my inability to sleep with any man the night before left a lasting impact on my "man-friend" and his female friends....Possibly?.... and the assumed implication from the lesbian comments was that I might be one?....because I sex-ed/kissed no man the night before?....
It is sad to think that people might label me a lesbian simply because I wasn’t interested in any men at the party. Wait, I was slightly into ONE guy buy too shy to show it...but alas, WHY would HE be into ME, when he can sleep in-between two women that night instead? Thank gosh my "shy-ness" allowed me to dodge a bullet and maybe even a STD.
So am I a lesbian, because I didn’t sleep with or come-onto anyone?
No, I am straight, love men, male-pectoral muscles and I also support the right to marry whomever anyone wants.
And that’s your Daily Dose of Diversity!
