Boys, Boys, Boys.
I LOVE men.
Especially, shirtless nice-haired men. It is no secret....
I have heard about the phenomena, “He’s just not that into you,” so I watched the movie....and Googled reviews of the book....
I have concluded: He IS into you....but he is into SEX with everyone else more....so women have to make a choice!
Choose to play the game or wait for THE ONE who will love you, bed you and wed you....
Now for me, I don’t like the idea of waiting for a man to “discover” how great I am and then ask me out....I try to believe I am fabulous on my own. However, I haven't taken the steps to ask a guy out, because I have many womanizers as friends and I like watching my friends play the game instead....
Don’t get me wrong, there are a FEW good men out there who will want to talk to you first, maybe be your friend first, maybe study with you or even go on the deadly D-word: DATE.... However, most of those guys are off the market already....but the question is HOW does one get that far, when so many men want sex at a party, or sex after footing the bill, or sex after the third date? It is one big GAME, even the nice guys want sex; they are just too scared to ask, so they take it slow...but it’s a game of give and take....
A female MUST give off the vibe of: vixen, DTF, that she’s naive enough to lose her phone in her shoe or that she is waiting for marriage (with a playful, meet me in the broom closet kind of wink)....something to that extent is usually what women must give off (to get male attention)....oh, and tight/non existent clothing, curly hair, low cut shirts, makeup, giggling, lingering hands and smiling helps, too!
In other words, giving off the vibe that you might be DUMB enough to sleep with the guy, no questions....WILLING enough to sleep with the guy, no strings or emotional attachment....DRUNK enough not to remember sleeping with the guy at all.... men will be ALLLLL over you. I have seen it...it works.
Here is a secret I have learned from being friends with countless players and womanizers, since my fifth grade year:
“Treat 'em mean, Keep 'em keen.” Men learn this early. In "Woman speak" it is know as “the chase” or “playing hard to get”
Most men know how to be mysterious, give enough attention and complements to keep the woman in question/to keep her thinking that SHE might be the special one he actually dates seriously. So ladies, remember if he says, “Hit me up anytime” or “Yea, call me” or “You should'a come with me the other day” the game is on....he is NOT giving you control, but keeping you keen....Being a, “man's after thought” isn't cool.
Now this is all fun and dandy, just don’t get your hopes up. Have fun with a guy, but remember you are nothing more than his muse for the moment. Don’t hope he will call, because he won't unless you text him with, “*wink* I’m drunk and alone outside of your apartment, broke my heel and have you seen my bra?” He will definitely call you back eventually, just to make sure you found your bra.
